By the Grace of G-d
1 Elul, 5712 [1952]
Brooklyn
Greetings and Blessings!
I[198] received your letter that was written on the day concerning which the Torah repeats the phrase, "[And G-d saw] that it was good."[199] You write there about yourself and your wife and ask for my opinion on this matter, and you also request a blessing.
When I visit the holy resting place of my revered father-in-law, the Rebbe [Rayatz], I will mention you both in prayer - that G-d grant you sound health and an ample livelihood, and that He speedily gladden your hearts by granting you healthy and viable children.
In order to receive G-d's blessings one must have appropriate vessels, namely, matters of Torah and mitzvos. Accordingly, I was happy to hear from the esteemed emissary, R. BenZion Shemtov, that you conduct your lives as one ought to do. I would only like to suggest that every morning before davenen you donate a few pennies for tzedakah, and that your wife should always make a contribution to tzedakah before candle-lighting on erev Shabbos and erev Yom-Tov.
You should also convey to your wife that she should muster strength in her trust in G-d, Who created and conducts such a big world - so for sure His specific Providence watches over each of you, leading you in the way that is best. Let her place her reliance on the Torah and the Shulchan Aruch,[200] not undertaking stringencies[201] beyond what is required by the Shulchan Aruch, but also not acting more leniently[202] (G-d forbid) than what is required by the Shulchan Aruch. And when one conducts oneself according to what is written in the Shulchan Aruch, such conduct constitutes good vessels to contain G-d's blessings for every individual according to his needs.
You should also see to it that the mezuzos in your home are kosher. Another point: Especially in the present month of Elul, the month of Divine mercy, each of you - or you together with your wife - should talk for at least a few minutes on the subject of trusting in G-d. And I hope that you will soon be able to give me the good news that you and your wife feel well, that you have fortified your trust in G-d, and that you observe the workings of Divine Providence - that G-d is leading you in a good direction both materially and spiritually.
With blessings that you be inscribed and sealed for a good year, and in anticipation of glad tidings,
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Notes:
- (Back to text) Igros Kodesh, Vol. 6, p. 300, Letter 1808.
- (Back to text) Bereishis 1:10 and 12, with reference to the third day of Creation.
- (Back to text) The Code of Jewish Law.
- (Back to text) In the original Heb./Yid., nit machmir-zain.
- (Back to text) In the original Yid., nit gringer-machn.